Designer John Stefanidis has created a home with a mythic quality on the Greek island of Patmos
Patmos, the smallest of the twelve islands known as the Dodecanese, lies north of Crete, a geological crumb broken from the coast of southern Turkey. For millennia its history has been a palimpsest of those who have invaded or arrived seeking sanctuary. In Greek mythology it is said to be the place where Orestes took refuge in his flight from the Furies after the murder of his mother Clytemnestra. It is where the exiled John the Apostle converted the population to Christianity, before retiring to a cave to write the Apocalypse. It has been ruled by the Byzantines, the Venetians and the Turks. In the 1960s a new influx began, which continues to this day; the arrival of the European and American beau monde.
To many people I meet on the island, the designer John Stefanidis and the house he created there with his former partner, the artist Teddy Millington Drake, was the start of this. Indeed they have taken on an almost mythic quality. ‘Everyone wants their house to look like John’s,’ says my host. Indeed it is rare to come across an interior that feels as if it sits so firmly outside of time and trends.
The story begins in the summer of 1963. The world was undergoing its great postwar loosening. Modernism was taking hold, old social structures were crumbling, and from the combustible mingling of artists, intellectuals and aristocrats, a new kind of Bohemianism was starting to take root. John Stefanidis, then a young advertising executive raised between Egypt and Eritrea but living in Milan, landed on the island with Teddy Millington Drake. Teddy was from an eccentric aristocratic family, and was then living at Villa Albrizzi at Este in the Veneto, the pair socialising with a set that included Barbara Hutton, Elsa Maxwell and Peggy Guggenheim.
The men had become friends in Milan, which was in the midst of its great ‘boom’, though John had first become aware of Teddy while at Oxford. ‘I’d seen in Sketch magazine a full-page photograph taken by Tony Armstrong-Jones of a man named Teddy Millington-Drake, sitting in a boat in Venice with a sketchbook in his lap. I was immediately drawn to the image. I asked a friend who had been at Magdalen College with Teddy whether he was “nice.” The answer was, “I wouldn’t say nice.”’
They arrived ‘in an old boat laden with animals,’ at the end of a tour of the eastern Mediterranean. Landing at noon, ‘a haunted hour,’ they climbed the steep road from the harbour on foot. Crowning the island, its dark grey crenellated walls as imposing as the helmet of a knight, is the 11th-century monastery of Saint-John the Theologian, under which the houses of the mediaeval town of Chora are scattered over the hillside like sugar cubes. When they arrived, the town was almost abandoned, many of the properties derelict behind crumbling walls. By the end of that first summer they had bought a 16th-century farmhouse for £1000. On three levels, the property descended through terraced gardens to fields enclosed by neglected stone walls. The monastery towered behind, and in front was the, ‘old Testament view across the dry fields to the eighteenth-century hermitage of the Prophet Elijah.’
‘Everywhere is the sea – steel blue, azure, turquoise, deepest sapphire, depending on the direction of the wind,’ writes John in his book An Island Sanctuary. ‘Goats graze on the hillsides, and in the evening the stillness is broken by the sound of their bells. The spiritual world of Byzantium is all around you. Church bells ring and the hum of early Christian chants, part of the Orthodox liturgy, float across the fields, even as the ancient gods, always present in Greece, hover above you – Elijah’s chapel is, after all, built on the site of a temple to Apollo. In the olive groves at the foot of the garden, Julian the Apostate still murmurs admonishments to return to the old ways.’
The house, abandoned for 25 years, had ‘sound, thick walls, old carved doors, and bleached wood floors. There were oil lamps for light, and rainwater was collected in cisterns.’ John returned to Patmos that winter, persuading a plumber and an electrician to travel from the Greek mainland with him. With the help of a local builder and carpenter he began to restore the house.
‘I was careful to leave as much as was possible of the old existing vernacular architecture intact. Untrained but curious and observant, I found that my years in Italy had sharpened and refined my aesthetic. New furniture was made on the island to complement traditional antiques, introducing traditional Ottoman themes that had once been indigenous to the Dodecanese. The restoration of the house in Patmos and the fortuitous results gave me confidence. I decided to pursue a career in design.’
John eventually rebuilt and modernised ten houses on the island. Always working with local builders, he developed a style that was delicately reverential to the past but shot through with elements of striking modernity. He insisted that the fundamental character of the houses was preserved, that whitewashed walls retained their bumps, and woodwork was restored rather than replaced. He helped revive the Patmonian tile industry by using designs made on the island. In the rooms, old kilims from Anatolia lie contentedly alongside bright dhurries newly commissioned from India. An ornate brass and wood chest found in the Hadhramaut sits beneath a large 18th-century Italian mirror. An inlaid ivory Moghul desk is mixed with rare Turkish embroideries and Indian miniatures.
‘What might be called Mediterranean style,’ he says, ‘is in many ways a conceit, given the numerous layers of civilisations, cultures, and influences that contribute to it; conceit that is composed of romanticism, sensuality, and practicality. It is a triumph of common sense. Whitewashed walls reflect light and heat; thick walls render rooms cool; cotton furnishings are fresher to the touch and the eye than wool and velvet. The most valuable gift of the Mediterranean to domestic life is the seamlessness between inside and outside: there is no psychic separation between the two.’
Teddy's work is still everywhere in evidence. From an anteroom painted with images of the sun and the moon, to a triptych of abstract works depicting the words Psyche, Eros and Zeus. ‘They demonstrate his superb draughtsmanship,’ says John. ‘The control and flow of line admired by the artist Cy Twombly who came to Patmos in the early 1960s with Nicola Del Roscio.’ In the 1980s they bought an adjoining house, where Teddy made a studio to paint. A stream of guests would arrive every summer. ‘We watched the island begin to change, in part the result of our presence. There had always been cruise ships, but people soon began to come on yachts.’
John and Teddy never lived together, ‘except on our travels or in Patmos. The house was our shared creation. We lived in our separate bedrooms, just the two of us, for a decade or more, our many guests sharing a guesthouse at a convenient distance.’
Later, the men would be estranged for eight years. ‘I was in a San Francisco hotel when Teddy’s nephew, who found antiques for my projects, came to my room to say that Teddy was in the Chelsea and Westminster Hospital in London and very much wanted to see me. Teddy said he did not want to take disagreements to the grave. As I tidied his hospital room, he said it was nice to have the boss back – cheeky! I had missed his droll and quirky mind. For the next three months, we were close again.’
Teddy Millington Drake made a final journey to Patmos before he died of AIDS in September 1994. In the garden of the house John built a whitewashed mausoleum, inscribed with XAIRE (hail and goodbye in ancient Greek).
In the almost 20 years since Teddy’s death, John has continued to embellish and nourish the house and its garden. Cypress, citrus and pomegranate trees, rosemary, verbena, oregano, basil, and bay flourish. ‘There is the sound of birdsong, the fluttering of dove wings and swallows nesting. Doors and windows left ajar with the scent of jasmine, lemon, and orange blossom wafting from the terraces that descend steeply to the garden rooms.’
John believes that a house lived in for decades by the same person, ‘emanates an atmosphere of old loves, lost friends, past thoughts, agreements and disagreements, happiness and misery.’ For him, sophistication and style are not analogous to happiness, ‘which springs rather from comfort, good manners, colours that please the eye, works of art, flowers, and cherished objects. A vista from room to room. These are gifts that enhance the world you have created.’
‘There comes a time in life when you assess the friendships that have given you the most pleasure, amusement, and affection. The same can be said of a place or a house. In my lifetime, it is a house and a garden on the island of Patmos, Greece, that have nurtured the soul.’
John Stefanidis: A Designer's Eye (Rizzoli) is available to buy now